John was by all appearances a good husband. He always remembered their anniversary, and was diligent in doing things like helping his wife with the kids, buying her flowers, and being kind to her. He read all the right books, was part of the latest fad movements in the Church that focused on man's responsibility, and he even led men's ministries to help teach other men how to do what he did. It was their tenth anniversary, and John was certainly not going to forget that. He came home early from work with a bouquet of long stemmed roses. His wife opened the door, and he handed her the roses. "Oh, thank you, John! I love them!" she said. Confidently, he replied, "Think nothing of it. I'm just doing my duty like I always do!" Upon these words, her countenance dropped. The roses fell to the ground, and she turned and headed to the bedroom in tears. Bewildered, John’s first reaction was to become angry. After all, as he played...